Monday, July 28, 2008

Dislikes About My PI Trip:

Disclaimer: This is solely a reflection on my experience & observations. Thus, isn't meant to represent Philippines as a whole. More like... an insight for you about my family. In addition, because it is only an outline, it has yet to be judged as a final draft.
  • Many people are driven by tradition & superstition
    • Levels and expectancies of being the following:
      • Respectful
      • Cordial
      • Family oriented
    • Expectancies of mentalities, mannerisms and actions
    • Conservatives disliked the new way my Lolo preferred people donating money for my Lola's funeral expenses (he only wanted people who can afford to donate to do so; apparently it's tradition that everyone pays an even amount of expenses regardless of one's own financial issues)
    • The bible is everything
  • Elders underestimate the youth
    • Lack of trust
      • Natural tendencies to give orders
    • Obedience expectancy
    • Rare cases of leveled conversations with elders
  • Passion & true personalities seem to be kept on the down low
    • Society's expectancies of abiding to the norm
    • Thus seemingly suppressed to the point of passiveness
      • Passiveness, which leads to too much forgiveness
  • Vanity & Pride
    • Reputation is highly valued
    • Complete families are envied
    • Everyone likes to play the blame game
      • Avoidance of one's own personal problems
  • Workers at malls & open markets
    • Too many workers!
      • Which means they mustn't get paid a lot
    • Stare a lot
    • Persistence in assistance!
      • It was nerve wrecking to constantly have someone over my shoulder
  • Majority of colleges
    • Practically all of the colleges I saw in Manila were medical schools
      • As if that is our only choice in PI
  • Fixed mentalities
    • The mentality that one is tied down by their environment, thus not striving for more
    • Always looking for the cheaper price
    • Assuming commands and precautions have good reasons without asking 'why'
I think I'll get into detail later...
But I'll definitely post what I liked about PI later.
It's only fair :]

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